Saturday, January 10, 2009

What a woman wants

I have many fantasies, sometimes that's all you have to keep you looking forward to what may come. Some can be read on the Disney Channel as a fairytale and others, well....you could find them in a Playboy magazine, but who really reads the articles anyways? I am asked a lot what my fantasy is and I usually avoid the question because there are too many to name one, and so many categories they fall into. I've realized just at this moment that there is one single fantasy that could bring all of the others together. It's not even a story fantasy just something simple that I've always wanted but always seemed out of my reach for what ever reason.
I want to find a movie man. What is a movie man you ask? A movie man is a man in real life that does all the things you love to see a man do in the movies. When you watch a love story or even a romantic comedy, which are one of my favorites. Men do some of the silliest, cutest most amazing things for the woman they want to be with. They leave funny little notes on their car or a flower just to let the woman know they were thinking of them. They seem to have no extent on what they would do to impress this woman, no matter how corny and no matter what their friends would say. They defy what normal guys would do for a woman in real life. It almost seems as if there is a stigma against giving women flowers just because it's Thursday or to remember and openly tell the woman what it is about them that you love or like, especially in public. I have always been the one who doesn't give a shit what other people think of me. I know I do not act inappropriate in public but there are still little things a man can do to make it interesting without drawing a lot of attention that still makes a woman melt quietly within herself. Men always ask what women really want, they always say they will never figure a woman out. Let me let you in on a little secret...we really aren't that hard to please, most of us anyways. There are some gold diggers that want it all and then some but I can't speak on their behalf because I can not relate to them. All most of us really want is a thought...yes, just a simple thought. A text that says "HI, was thinking of you and wanted to let you know", flowers sent just because, with a simple note. In today's time the ultimate "I'm really into you" is on the internet. Myspace, Louisvillemojo, Facebook is a hot spot for millions and when a guy is willing to say something he's not likely to say to "just anyone" as a comment or a voucher where the whole entire web can see. A woman eats that up cause she knows that he doesn't care who knows how he feels about you or what they have to say about it cause he is into you and only you.
I was raised in a very low income household and I am glad I was because it taught me the value of what you have or what is appreciated. I take nothing for granted and speak from my heart always. No, I was not raised to have these values, I have taught them to myself and learned them from what I have been given and I am one of the lucky ones who could make good out of bad and have appreciation for even the smallest things. I would rather have a small picnic at Iroquois Park eating McDonald's with someone who wants to get to know me and be with me than be at J. Alexanders with an asshole who is trying to buy my love and just wants to get laid afterward. It's the "thought" of what you do that makes it significant. Remember that guys "The thought of what you do is the significance of what is done".

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