What do men want?

Today's curiosity leans toward finding out what men really want from a woman. Obviously I can not answer this question with conviction because I truly do not know the answer, I am not a man. I have asked many of my guy friends this question and it all sounds the same to what women want from a man. But, if that is so why are there so many people alone without that person that simply wants the same thing? I would have to say chemistry is a key factor. In my years of dating and looking for Mr.Right I can honestly say that I have had chemistry with a lot of people but that's where I can say, I know, there are different types of chemistry and that's the tricky part of it all.
I have been attracted to men strictly sexually or emotionally and very few have I been attracted to because of both. I think that is what we are all looking for, hence the saying,"My friend and my lover".
There are so many beautiful women and gorgeous men on this planet, it's hard NOT to be sexually attracted to a lot of them, but you can fuck a beautiful person for so long before you grow tired of just the outside. I think all in all we all want that person we can make love to or fuck and still be able to have an intelligent and interesting conversation.
I will not disclose names but I have dated some men where the sex wasn't so great yet I was intrigued by their personality, which kept me wanting to see where it could go. The downside is that I found myself wanting other men that could fulfill that sexuality that the other could not. So, how do you stay faithful in that situation? Eventually you don't. In the same situation, yet reversed chemistry I have dated men that were awesome in bed but lacked personality. Still, you find yourself talking to other people trying to fill the gap of a decent conversation with interest. Eventually you develop feeling for the other person and when things get hot and heavy, "BAM!", they suck in bed...lol. So where does the vicious cycle end?
I wish I knew what a man wanted from a woman, but unfortunately I don't have the answer, just my perception from my experiences with the opposite sex. I look at myself and evaluate what it is about me that does not appease to the male species. I am understanding, affectionate, loving, caring and would do anything to please my partner. I'm a great mom, love to cook, I clean, I am smart, love to read....what is else could a man want? I have finally come to the conclusion that my look is what is wrong. No, I will not change me or who I am. I have tattoos, many of them, a few piercings and I believe that I an stereo-typed because of these choices. If I meet someone I usually find out at the end of out knowing each other, that I was not what they expected. Out of curiosity I have to ask "what were you expecting?". The reply is always the same "I thought you would be wild and crazy to a high extent and that is what I was looking for". So I now see the reason for the saying,"don't judge a book by it's cover". Why don't I change you ask? I will never change who I am for anyone unless it is a negative trait that hurt others I possess that is brought to my attention I was unaware of. In that case I would be happy to change that aspect, but I love tattoos, I am comfortable with the way I look. If the other person is not then he doesn't need to associate with me in any other way but friendship.
So I have concluded this is what every man, I have ever met, wants from a woman.
A physical connection, an emotional connection, someone willing to please him in anyway she can, and a woman that can be taken to a club and look hot but at the same time can be taken home to mom without any objection. Then there are some that want nothing more than to see how many girl they can add to the notches of the headboard.
We all want the same thing and finding it is the journey most of us are still on.